tajuk sgt lah gemapk kan... yes, mmg gempak jgk lah, sbb bila ank korang tanya soklan maut mcm tuh, 1st. thing kene pikir bukan saja jawapan yg tepat tp jgk dgn cara yg betul..... (kepala pening ckit,sbb otak spinning mcm gasing kene bg jwpan now and then lak tuh... huhuhuhu)
ok, 2hari lepas my sweetpie (Nawal) tgh buat homework and mak lak sdg lipat baju. she is 12 1/2years old, tingkatan 1 skrg. then dia dtg dkt mak and ckp " Ma, how do u spell " berzina", is it just " A without h, or with H at the end'? so,mak jwb without "H".
ok, she respon ringkas jer. a few sec after that dia tanya lagi " what exactly berzina means" ???? hahahaha..... so apa korang nk jawab??????
mak pun try my very best lah to ans in a very polite way n the best I can. mula2 strt dgn bgtaw
berzina ni haram in Islam. something that is very wrong and so on.. so on... then dgn selamba deq dia kata, "yes Ma, I know that but what I want to know what is "zina" means???? Then mak start lg, "u know things like touching and kissing with yr boyfren or any man that is not yr legal married husband.... " and out of my surprise she just mencelah n say " u mean doing sex with someone that is not yr husband????? mak terdiam sekejap n then terus jawab " YES" . Nawal then smbg, "u mean nothing is wrong with sex if it is wth yr husband/wives but it is very wrong/haram with anybody else,right ??? straight forward jer ank dara tuh bckp B-)
huh #:-S nk mendidik ank skrg sgt lah mencabar... they will come with 1001 soalan n things yg x dijangkakn, and we as mother lak must alyways "ever ready" dgn jawapan n action wlaupun x berapa nk ready... hihihihi
Bila Nawal tanya mcmtuh , mak teringat lak many years ago my eldest son pun pernah tanya soalan maut pd mak when he is only 6years old then . nk tahu apa,???? mak update besok jer ok...This son is a very curious boy, he wants to know so many things even x padan dgn umor dia hehehehehe.........
next entry, mak janji..... :)
gmbr dibwh ni xde kene mgena dgn tajuk diats, sekadar hiasan saja :))
budak2 sekarang mmg advance..memang susah mak ayah nak explain
ReplyDeleteank2 kita skrg hidup dlm era new millennium katakan.....
DeleteCuriosity.......lebih baik bertanya dr mencuba! Nauzubillahminzalik! Mmg mencabar soalan tu. Sebg ibu hr ni mmg byk benda yg kita kena berhati2 menjawab supaya tdk disalah ertikan oleh anak2.
ReplyDeletemmg betul ibuhani, jd parents nowdays kita kene lebih terbuka dan peka dgn keadaan semasa...
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